Marriage is the most sacred bond between two people, apart from parenthood, which is a complete matter altogether, which is meant to last for life. But there are times when it just does not happen. Perhaps it is not meant to be?
Knowingly, unknowingly, you tread down the path you try to stay far away from – divorce. Especially in these times, divorce has become very common, which should not be something that is trending.
Divorce can take place due to many reasons. Some of the most common ones are as follows
All of these issues can be sorted by a chat with an astrologer at SUVICH who can give you remedies for all of them instead of getting a divorce.
For all the relationships any person has in their life, the D-9 or the Navmansha Chart must be checked in a person's kundli. This will help in effectively finding out about the pre-marital relationships, marriage as well as about their divorce if any might happen.
But astrology is also strong enough to tell you whether you have a divorce written in your kundli or not and our relationship experts can tell you about it perfectly. Divorce is a huge thing that happens in a person’s life, so the houses which lead to a divorce are also important to know.
The main houses that influence the married life of a couple or even the divorce are the 4th house, 7th house, 8th house and the 12th house. For checking the conditions of your relationship, an astrologer always checks the Upapada Lagna.
The type and the quality of the relationship a person will share with his or her spouse is shown through the Upapada Lagna. When benefic planets have an aspect on this house, it leads to a happy, married life.
All the planets that aspect the Upapada Lagna and its lord must be studied to understand how your spouse will be in terms of personality, nature, background and everything else related to them.
The house next to the Upapada Lagna is the house that will tell about the sustenance of your marriage. If this house holds planets like Rahu, Mars or Saturn, which are known to cause struggles in marriage, then a divorce is bound to happen in your life.
It is also important to analyse the Navmansha chart (the D-9 chart) for any issues or even all the good things that will happen in your course of the relationship.
In the Navmansha chart, it is important to check the 7th house, ascendant, 6th house and 8th house for any problem in your marriage.
The houses in your birth chart represent the following:
The most common planets that are found to be responsible for a couple going in the direction of the divorce are Sun, Mars, Saturn, Rahu and Ketu. They have an immense impact on relationships as they are malefic by nature.
Let us see how each one of them behaves.
The hot-headed nature of this planet shows an adverse effect in terms of separation and eventually divorce. If by any chance, the Sun is afflicted or placed in the very wrong house or is connected to the 7th house whatsoever, it will lead to the deterioration of the relationship.
The Sun is commanding and has incredible authority over all the other planets. This results in the formation of ego which increases as time goes on. which is why, if the Sun is in the 1st or the 7th house, it will lead to a divorce.
Apart from this situation, if the Sun is placed in a house of an unfriendly planet as a lord, it will lead to the creation of a lot of conflicts.
The partners will tend to blame each other for everything that is happening wrong in each other’s lives. But it will not lead to separation or divorce. The problems will be solved every time.
Along with the Sun, if Venus is present in specific houses like the 2nd, 4th, 7th or 8th houses, with the Sun being within 7 degrees and 30 minutes, then a divorce is bound to happen, no matter what.
If along with the Sun, a benefic planet is accompanying it or having an aspect on the house of the son, the chances of a divorce lower, but the couple will still have issues and ego problems.
Mars, a highly malefic planet, is infamous for its reputation as a planet which causes a lot of quarrels and physical harassment. It also leads to a Manglik Dosha when placed in the wrong house like the 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th or 12th house.
In the Manglik Dosha, there are chances of death of Doshi, the first partner of the person having this dosha in their kundli. This dosha can easily be resolved with certain remedies, without the loss of life of the bride or the groom.
If this planet is located in the houses of marriage like the 1st or the 7th house, it will lead to physical as well as verbal quarrels in your family. But if Mars is present only in the 7th house, the fights will remain between the husband and the wife only.
But, especially in a female chart, if the 3rd and the 11th house, as well as their lords, are involved with Mars, then there are chances of physical abuse from the father – in - law and the mother - in - law too.
The presence of Mars mostly leads to these divorces being dragged to the courtroom and creating a lot of ruckuses. But the presence of any benefic planet alongside this malefic planet can change things for the better!
If a Raja yoga is formed by Mars in its own house, without being afflicted by any malefic planet, the couple will lead an extremely happy life. This passionate planet will fill your life with a lot of passion for your partner.
Another malefic planet, Saturn can also lead to a lot of divorces if not taken care of. This planet is the slowest moving planet, which means that everything is, good or bad, will affect you slowly and steadily when influenced by this planet.
If you or your partner have an influence of Saturn on them, you or they may keep things bottled up inside them. And instead of letting them out, store it until the time it gets too much.
Since Saturn is so slow in moving, it can keep a married couple estranged from each other throughout their life. This entire process will take up a lot of time in both of their lives.
What Saturn will do is start slowly with minor misunderstandings that will eventually lead to miscommunication between the two of them. This will slowly lead to incompatibility and a lot of fights and conflicts that will eventually lead to a divorce. But this entire process will take up a lot of time for both of their lives.
A bad effect of Saturn can also lead to the incapability of bearing a boy child, which can also be an issue for fighting and also a divorce.
Just like the planets mentioned before, Rahu will also have a bad effect on a relationship when it is placed in any house related to marriage and especially the 7th house.
Rahu is known as the planet of separation and also the planet of smoke.
Rahu’s connection with the 7th house, which is the house of sex, it means that this person is not satisfied with just one sexual partner. They cannot stay with just one partner for a very long period.
A person with an influence of Rahu has a very flirty personality, which is the major reason for misunderstanding between them and their partner, which leads to divorce for sure. The main reason for their divorce is the extra-marital affair.
Astrologers at SUVICH have deep knowledge. Chat/ Call to our astrologer and know how to avoid such circumstances in our life.
For any new experience of your life, be it getting married or getting a divorce, it will happen only if your Mahadashas and Antardasha favour the situation. A slight change in your dashas is enough to save you from getting the tag of a divorcee.
The following points must be kept in mind for an individual’s dashas.
To avoid chances of getting a divorce or even ending a fight that must have been going on, you can try the following remedies:
These remedies are extremely generic and may work for others and not for you. But trying them for the sake of saving your marriage is nothing very great to ask for!
Make sure to ask our relationship advisors at SUVICH – The Real Astrologer for an accurate prediction of your married life and a remedy if you are at a stage of getting a divorce.